"Slefease" or "Selfeese", (like in Japanese, Chinese, etc) refers to self language: The language I need to communicate with myself! I came up with this term as it clearly connotes and denotes the concept of self communication.
Often times, we succeed in communicating with others but fail to communicate correctly with ourselves--simply because we do not know the optimal language of doing such.
Look out for my forthcoming (within the next few months) book Selfease. A book in behavior modification--do it yourself model.